Breather

I finished my share of the taxes (late filing!) while simultaneously receiving a short-story rejection for a piece about a young, struggling bi warlock that I am quite fond of (both piece and mage). Enough stimlus!  I am avoiding social-media stimulation.  Just too much. Don't know how avid users stay wired in, even with pretty colours and dopamine hits. My dopamine hits require a little, shall we say, stronger stuff. Hope everyone is doing alright, both naughty and nice. They deserve headspace, too.


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